How Studying Abroad in Mérida Inspired Me to Dream Bigger

From my time in Mérida, the greatest lesson I learned is to overcome the limiting thoughts I once held about my life. Before, I would look at my dream—to build my own business—and think: “That kind of life isn’t for a first-generation Mexican American from a low-income family like me.”

Belonging and learning to live boldly

I’ll never forget the anxiety I felt walking to classes on my first day of school in Mexico, bracing myself to feel out of place. But the opposite happened. My classmates were warm, outgoing, and welcoming—just like me. I realized that my charisma and expressiveness, traits I had often softened to fit into American culture, weren’t quirks. They were reflections of my Mexican heritage, deeply ingrained. I remember calling my mom, excitedly telling her I felt like un pez en el agua—a fish in water—because that was exactly how I felt. Being surrounded by classmates who shared my energy helped me understand something powerful: I wasn’t too much or too different. I had spent years trying to fit into spaces that didn’t reflect the culture that shaped me. It wasn’t me who didn’t belong—it was those spaces that didn’t match who I am.

I met so many young people—classmates and locals alike—who were pursuing incredible things. They weren’t just studying or working; they were starting businesses, embracing creative projects, and building their dreams with unwavering confidence. Seeing them live boldly showed me I could do the same.

For the first time, I believed I could break free from my doubts and create the life I had dreamed of.

Cultural immersion

A big part of my growth came from the thoughtful support I received from my IFSA directors. They took time to understand what mattered most to me, including my Christian faith, and ensured I would feel at home while abroad. They paired me with host parents who were also deeply Christian, and this match made all the difference. My host parents and I attended church together and often had enriching conversations about faith, culture, and life. These discussions grounded me in my beliefs, while opening my mind to new perspectives.

My host family also introduced me to Yucatecan dishes I had never tried, like cochinita pibil and panuchos. Every meal was an opportunity to learn about the local culture, as they lovingly explained the history and traditions behind each dish. Through their warmth and hospitality, I felt deeply connected to Mérida and its people.

The IFSA directors were there every step of the way, organizing unforgettable excursions that immersed us in the culture. One of my favorite memories was celebrating Día de los Muertos. They taught us how to build altares, and for the first time, I felt a meaningful connection to the tradition—one I had seen growing up but never fully understood. We shared laughter, learning, and a sense of belonging.

Connecting with family

One reason I chose this program was its proximity to Jalisco, where my extended family lives. Thanks to Mérida’s location and the program schedule, I visited my family three times while I was abroad. Those visits were incredibly special, filled with laughter, stories, and moments that reminded me why staying connected to my roots matters. Every visit deepened my sense of belonging, reminding me that my identity as a Mexican American is something to celebrate, not downplay.

Don’t let fear hold you back

If you’re considering studying abroad—especially as a first-generation student—it’s okay to feel scared or unsure. I felt the same way. But don’t let those fears hold you back. Stepping into the unknown might be exactly what you need to rediscover yourself. For me, Mérida became a place to do just that—a place that will always feel like home, where I learned to believe in my dreams and trust the person I’m becoming.

Diana Garcia | University of Minnesota | IFSA Mérida Universities Program | Fall 2025